{"id":237,"date":"2014-02-16T02:00:17","date_gmt":"2014-02-16T00:00:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dipse.ro\/maria\/?p=237"},"modified":"2014-02-16T08:19:50","modified_gmt":"2014-02-16T06:19:50","slug":"ziua-familiei-noastre-16-februarie-ziua-casatoriei-parintilor-nostri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dipse.ro\/maria\/ziua-familiei-noastre-16-februarie-ziua-casatoriei-parintilor-nostri\/","title":{"rendered":"Ziua Familiei noastre – 16 februarie ziua c\u0103s\u0103toriei p\u0103rin\u0163ilor no\u015ftri"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"parintii<\/a><\/p>\n

\u00cen familia mea din Ocna-Mure\u015f, \u00een care am crescut, de multe ori am auzit aceast\u0103 fraz\u0103: \u00ab\u00a0Niciodat\u0103 n-a fost s\u0103 nu fie cumva<\/i><\/b>\u00a0\u00bb. Aceasta ne semnala noi greut\u0103\u0163i de \u00eenfruntat dar, mai ales voin\u0163a de a le dep\u0103\u015fi prin ac\u0163iune proprie.<\/p>\n

\u00ab\u00a0Tonul\u00a0\u00bb pleca de la p\u0103rin\u0163i. Noi, cei 4 copii \u2013 Nu\u015fi (1936), Emil (1938 – 2003), Nicu\u015for (1941), Mia (1943) eram antrena\u0163i s\u0103 g\u0103sim \u2013 fiecare dup\u0103 puterile lui, solu\u0163ia concret\u0103 \u00een limitele \u00ab\u00a0drumului drept\u00a0\u00bb \u00eentotdeauna singurul de urmat, f\u0103r\u0103 v\u0103ic\u0103reli, cu \u00eencuraj\u0103ri \u015fi sus\u0163ineri reciproce av\u00e2nd grij\u0103 unul de cel\u0103lalt. \u00cen acela\u015fi timp, am \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at de la p\u0103rin\u0163i s\u0103 ne \u00eentreb\u0103m, \u00een cazul unui e\u015fec \u2013 \u00een primul r\u00e2nd \u2013 \u00ab\u00a0unde am gre\u015fit\u00a0\u00bb, pentru ca apoi, s\u0103 putem \u00eendrepta lucrurile.<\/p>\n

\"4<\/a><\/p>\n

Mai tinerii vecini (cei mai ata\u015fa\u0163i nou\u0103) familia Chira M\u0103rioara \u015fi Vasile \u2013 oameni de omenie \u015fi de mare demnitate, dar \u015fi al\u0163ii,\u00a0 \u00eei admirau pe p\u0103rin\u0163ii no\u015ftri care duminic\u0103 de duminic\u0103 \u2013 mergeau bra\u0163 la bra\u0163 al biseric\u0103 \u2013 unde c\u00e2ntau, \u00een cor. Exemplul lor ne-a \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at c\u0103 gesturile simple \u2013 \u00eenso\u0163ite de vorba bl\u00e2nd\u0103 \u015fi nelipsitul \u00ab\u00a0drag\u0103\u00a0\u00bb chiar \u00een \u00eemprejur\u0103ri tensionate \u2013 fac temelia unei familii unite care dureaz\u0103. La acestea se adaug\u0103 nelipsitul buchet de flori adus de tata, mamei noastre, c\u00e2nd el se \u00eentorcea de la stupii de l\u00e2ng\u0103 p\u0103durea Ciungii.<\/p>\n

La noi \u00een familie se vorbea \u015fi rom\u00e2ne\u015fte \u015fi ungure\u015fte, obicei considerat onorant \u00een or\u0103\u015felul nostru.<\/p>\n

Nu-mi consider p\u0103rin\u0163ii oameni excep\u0163ionali \u2013 (chiar dac\u0103 Tata era un spirit enciclopedic, iar Mama \u2013 un model de \u00een\u0163elepciune \u015fi h\u0103rnicie remarcabil) pentru c\u0103 memoria ora\u015fului Ocna-Mure\u015f a \u00eenregistrat \u015fi alte nume demne de laud\u0103, despre care ar fi bine s\u0103 se a\u015ftearn\u0103 la scris c\u00e2t mai mul\u0163i urma\u015fi.<\/p>\n

Prin aceste r\u00e2nduri, \u00een numele fra\u0163ilor mei \u015fi al tuturor nepo\u0163ilor \u015fi str\u0103nepo\u0163ilor, doresc s\u0103 fac o reveren\u0163\u0103 de recuno\u015ftin\u0163\u0103 profund\u0103 \u00een fa\u0163a P\u0103rin\u0163ilor mei care, \u00een ciuda simplit\u0103\u0163ii \u015fi modestiei lor, a \u00eendelungilor greut\u0103\u0163i materiale, \u015fi nu \u00een ultimul r\u00e2nd a opresiunii regimului, ne-au condus \u015fi \u00eendemnat c\u0103tre ac\u0163iune \u015fi fapte bune fa\u0163\u0103 de semeni.<\/p>\n

Tata Marcu Emil, stabilea \u00ab\u00a0direc\u0163ia\u00a0\u00bb iar Mama Ana \u00eel sus\u0163inea, \u00eel ajuta \u015fi veghea la p\u0103strarea \u00ab\u00a0drumului drept\u00a0\u00bb pentru noi to\u0163i.<\/p>\n

\u00ab\u00a0Niciodat\u0103 n-a fost s\u0103 nu fie cumva, iar la noi \u015fi pentru noi, a fost \u2026. A\u015eA.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n

\"Parintii<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u00cen familia mea din Ocna-Mure\u015f, \u00een care am crescut, de multe ori am auzit aceast\u0103 fraz\u0103: \u00ab\u00a0Niciodat\u0103 n-a fost s\u0103 nu fie cumva\u00a0\u00bb. Aceasta ne semnala noi greut\u0103\u0163i de \u00eenfruntat dar, mai ales voin\u0163a de a le dep\u0103\u015fi prin ac\u0163iune proprie. \u00ab\u00a0Tonul\u00a0\u00bb pleca de la p\u0103rin\u0163i. Noi, cei 4 copii \u2013 Nu\u015fi (1936), Emil (1938 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[32,31,128,127,33],"class_list":["post-237","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-fara-categorie","tag-ana","tag-emil","tag-mia","tag-nicu","tag-ocna-mures"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dipse.ro\/maria\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/237","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dipse.ro\/maria\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dipse.ro\/maria\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dipse.ro\/maria\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dipse.ro\/maria\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=237"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/dipse.ro\/maria\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/237\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dipse.ro\/maria\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=237"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dipse.ro\/maria\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=237"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dipse.ro\/maria\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=237"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}