{"id":778,"date":"2025-01-31T19:33:46","date_gmt":"2025-01-31T17:33:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dipse.ro\/maria\/?p=778"},"modified":"2025-01-31T19:41:29","modified_gmt":"2025-01-31T17:41:29","slug":"momente-din-gradina-cismigiu-iii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dipse.ro\/maria\/momente-din-gradina-cismigiu-iii\/","title":{"rendered":"Momente din Gr\u0103dina Ci\u0219migiu (III)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Pe <em>Movila<\/em> din Gr\u0103dina Ci\u0219migiu g\u0103se\u0219ti, dac\u0103 vrei, suficient\u0103 pace ca s\u0103 nu te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti la nimic.<br>Dar, dac\u0103 deodat\u0103 din pu\u021binii trec\u0103tori pe colin\u0103, tocmai c\u00e2nd soarele a pornit spre apus, se opre\u0219te o doamn\u0103 \u00een fa\u021ba <em>ta<\/em>, <em>te<\/em> salut\u0103, z\u00e2mbe\u0219te \u0219i <em>te<\/em> \u00eentreab\u0103 \u201e\u2013 <em>Ce face\u021bi<\/em>? <em>Scrie\u021bi \u00een jurnal?\u201d<\/em> \u2013 trebuie s\u0103 r\u0103spunzi. Ceea am f\u0103cut \u0219i eu: \u201e\u2013 <em>\u00cencerc s\u0103-mi golesc mintea de toate cele netrebuincioase, ca s\u0103 fac loc pentru alte g\u00e2nduri care s\u0103-mi fie de folos\u201d<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vizitatoarea, o doamn\u0103 de talie relativ scund\u0103, cu p\u0103rul \u0219aten lins cobor\u00e2nd p\u00e2n\u0103 la umeri \u0219i \u00eencadr\u00e2ndu-i z\u00e2mbetul, p\u0103rea c\u0103 are nevoie de un interlocutor c\u0103ruia s\u0103-i dest\u0103inuie c\u0103 domnul cu c\u00e2inele care o \u00eenso\u021bea era prietenul ei, c\u0103 a tr\u0103it \u0219i \u00een Israel \u0219i c\u0103 are o fiic\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Recunosc c\u0103 nu m\u0103 interesau aspectele din via\u021ba unei necunoscute, dar am r\u0103mas politicoas\u0103, acord\u00e2ndu-i aten\u021bia pe care o a\u0219tepta \u0219i de care probabil chiar avea nevoie. I-am r\u0103spuns mai ales cu \u00eencuviin\u021b\u0103ri din cap, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 comentez ori s\u0103 contrazic ceva din spusele ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Z\u00e2mbetul nepref\u0103cut de mul\u021bumire \u0219i u\u0219urin\u021ba cu care \u0219i-a ignorat partenerul \u00een timpul conversa\u021biei noastre, mi-au dat impresia unei persoane deschise s\u0103 primeasc\u0103 o sugestie, prin replicile mele.<br>Cu experien\u021ba mea de zeci de ani de profesorat, n-am putut ignora postura ei cu picioarele \u00eencruci\u0219ate, pe care am \u00eencercat odinioar\u0103 s\u0103 o corectez \u0219i la studentele mele, cer\u00e2ndu-le s\u0103-\u0219i controleze pozi\u021bia \u2013 s\u0103 stea cu coloana dreapt\u0103, umerii u\u0219or tra\u0219i \u00eenapoi \u0219i <strong><em>picior l\u00e2ng\u0103 picior;<\/em><\/strong> picioarele pozi\u021bionate \u00eencruci\u0219at pot aduce un fel de del\u0103sare \u00een confort, c\u00e2nd \u0219i umerii \u0219i coloana se curbeaz\u0103 u\u0219or.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201e\u2013 V\u0103 pot sugera ceva ?\u201d<\/em> am \u00eentrebat-o cu respect, pe interlocutoarea mea. \u201e\u2013 <em>Da!\u201d<\/em> a r\u0103spuns ea, dezinvolt\u0103. \u201e\u2013 <em>S\u0103 nu mai sta\u021bi cu picioarele \u00eencruci\u0219ate! Face o impresie nepl\u0103cut\u0103 celui care v\u0103 prive\u0219te. Ave\u021bi un corp bine construit chiar dac\u0103 sunte\u021bi pu\u021bin mai scund\u0103, ori aceast\u0103 pozi\u021bie a picioarelor \u00eei creeaz\u0103 privitorului impresia c\u0103 v\u0103 gr\u0103bi\u021bi la toalet\u0103.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu s-a sup\u0103rat dar s-a gr\u0103bit s\u0103-\u0219i justifice postura: \u201e\u2013 <em>\u0218ti\u021bi, eu am picioarele str\u00e2mbe<\/em>, zice ea, <em>\u0219i stau a\u0219a ca s\u0103 nu le observe cei din jur<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201e\u2013 \u0218i de ce ar fi a\u0219a de grav dac\u0103 observ\u0103&nbsp;<\/em><em>?<\/em><em>\u201d <\/em>i-am replicat eu, c\u00e2t mai conving\u0103tor. \u201e\u2013 <em>Aceasta sunte\u021bi dumneavoastr\u0103! &nbsp;P\u0103rerea unui &nbsp;trec\u0103tor nu trebuie s\u0103 conteze \u00een via\u021ba dumneavoastr\u0103, iar cine v\u0103 stimeaz\u0103 sau v\u0103 iube\u0219te, ignor\u0103 ceea ce dumneavoastr\u0103 numi\u021bi defect!<\/em> <strong><em>Dar, ca s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple asta, \u00eenainte de toate, accepta\u021bi-v\u0103 a\u0219a cum sunte\u021bi<\/em><\/strong><em>!<\/em><em> Conta\u021bi pe calit\u0103\u021bile dumneavoastr\u0103 ca s\u0103 fi\u021bi \u00een fiecare zi, o variant\u0103 mai bun\u0103 a propriei persoane, prin ceea ce face\u021bi bine \u0219i bun pentru dumneavoastr\u0103 \u00een primul r\u00e2nd, pentru \u00eemplinirea unui scop frumos pe care vi-l fixa\u021bi; oric\u00e2t de nesemnificativ\u0103 ar fi la prima vedere, o astfel de \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bire face s\u0103 v\u0103 creasc\u0103 stima pentru propria persoan\u0103, pe care nu trebuie s-o \u00eenjosi\u021bi ascunz\u00e2ndu-v\u0103 de ceilal\u021bi; mintea v\u0103 va ajuta s\u0103 dep\u0103\u0219i\u021bi aceast\u0103 stinghereal\u0103 care v-a produs suferin\u021b\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 acum. Fiica dumneavoastr\u0103 \u0219tie de ce ave\u021bi mereu aceasta pozi\u021bie? <\/em>am continuat eu. <em>\u201e\u2013 Da\u201d <\/em>a r\u0103spuns ea<em>.<\/em><em><br>\u201e\u2013 \u00cen cazul acesta, pentru fiica dumneavoastr\u0103 <strong>pute\u021bi fi un exemplu bun doar ajut\u00e2nd-o s\u0103 \u0219tie c\u0103 este unic\u0103 \u00een felul ei, iar schimb\u0103rile le facem in pa\u0219i mici, \u00een noi \u0219i cu noi<\/strong>.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ne-am desp\u0103r\u021bit, ea \u2013 Valentina \u2013 cer\u00e2ndu-mi dreptul la o \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pe Movila din Gr\u0103dina Ci\u0219migiu g\u0103se\u0219ti, dac\u0103 vrei, suficient\u0103 pace ca s\u0103 nu te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti la nimic.Dar, dac\u0103 deodat\u0103 din pu\u021binii trec\u0103tori pe colin\u0103, tocmai c\u00e2nd soarele a pornit spre apus, se opre\u0219te o doamn\u0103 \u00een fa\u021ba ta, te salut\u0103, z\u00e2mbe\u0219te \u0219i te \u00eentreab\u0103 \u201e\u2013 Ce face\u021bi? Scrie\u021bi \u00een jurnal?\u201d \u2013 trebuie s\u0103 r\u0103spunzi. Ceea [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[326,1],"tags":[349,341,327,350],"class_list":["post-778","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-326","category-fara-categorie","tag-invatatura","tag-educatie","tag-gradina-cismigiu","tag-x"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dipse.ro\/maria\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/778","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dipse.ro\/maria\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dipse.ro\/maria\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dipse.ro\/maria\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dipse.ro\/maria\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=778"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/dipse.ro\/maria\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/778\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":781,"href":"https:\/\/dipse.ro\/maria\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/778\/revisions\/781"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dipse.ro\/maria\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=778"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dipse.ro\/maria\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=778"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dipse.ro\/maria\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=778"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}